Care Tips

We know at Care One 2 One how difficult it can be to care for a loved one. We also know that not everyone can afford to get constant care for that person and therefore will have to care for them themselves. It’s important in that case to make sure you’re also caring for yourself. Here are some tips to keep in mind if you are a carer.

  • Take time for yourself. Make sure you have time to relax. If necessary, enlist the help of other family members or even hire someone to assist you in providing care.
  • Learn as much as you can about your loved one’s disease. That way you’ll understand what changes to expect in your loved one’s behavior or symptoms and how you can best help when those changes occur.
  • Let your loved one participate. Don’t try to do everything for your loved one. Allow him or her the time to complete daily activities on his or her own, such as dressing.
  • Consult your loved one about his or her family affairs. Although it’s not easy to discuss these topics, you should be informed of your loved one’s wishes regarding a living will, durable power of attorney, and do-not-resuscitate (DNR) order.
  • Set realistic goals for yourself and your loved one. Don’t attempt to do everything. By setting attainable goals, you are setting everyone up for success rather than disappointment.
  • Do not put your life on hold. Continue to meet with friends, participate in hobbies or groups, and maintain a schedule as normal as possible. You will not only feel more energized, you will be less likely to feel resentful.
  • Have someone you can talk to. You are there to listen to and support your loved one, but you also need a support person. Talk openly and honestly with a friend or family member. If that’s not possible, join a support group. Understanding that you are not alone and that someone else is in a similar situation helps you to feel nurtured.

 

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